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So recently I have started to feel more confident about myself in the way of gaining and being a chubby twink, and one thing I wanted to do was to let some of my friends know about what it is I like and who I am.

Most of them it is just the case of one day telling them, Although I am starting to go to the gym to work on getting that booty I always wanted and generally keeping myself fit with one of my friends is helping me by being my gym buddy. And I am trying to figure out how to say that although I am going to be working out I still wish to keep my chubby frame and even add a little to it.

I know that will probably lead to some more questions from them and I want to be open and honest about why I like being on the softer side (CW 150, GW 200) and that I find people of a similar body just as attractive, as well as some of the more kinky stuff that involves (Tight clothes, feeding kink and general belly play/teasing stuff) some of which I guess is just a more tailored form of sub/dom but I still know how niche this is and because of that I feel like I don't know how or where to begin with it.

It’s great you’re feeling a lot more confident with gaining!

Lots of people go to the gym for many other reasons than weight loss. If they mention they have noticed that you have gained, you can always just tell them that you are feeling more relaxed about eating more and actually feel more confident.

Out of curiosity though, may I ask why you feel like you have to tell your friends?

I personally have never felt the need to tell my friends about my kinks and fetishes and it’s not something that is brought up in general conversations. I’ve gained 100lbs over the years and no one has ever asked me why.

Are your friends very kink friendly? Do you have a specific friend you want to tell?

No one has mentioned it really, been on a weight plateau for a while now thanks to my metabolism and going through a break up destroying my appetite and regular encouragement.

The main reason I want to share it is because I kinda feel like it is a part of me and although I will say I'm very flexible when it comes to the type of person I find attractive, chubby and starter-belly sizes have always been my 10/10 and when my friends and I are talking about a cute/hot person who goes by or some celeb, the conversation can lead to what we like about them or taking about certain features and I don't really feel like brushing over or ignoring such a big part of my tastes.

While I may not go into depth with the kink or fetish side of things. I do wish I could share a little bit about my likes and such with a few people who I trust. (some already know I don't mind bigger people but don't know that it is my main preference)

We are certainly an open bunch when it comes to sexual stuff, one of the group has been using OF for a few years to help with their bills, making no secret about it and another while straight is always being a tease with me. (since he knows I like the tall and skinny type...my second fav body type ha ha ha).

Nice. I have some non-feedist friends that know I'm a feeder. They don't understand, but they don't treat me differently.

That makes sense!

It’s really great you have an open bunch of friends, especially when it comes to sexual stuff.

I just think if it comes up in conversation about preferences you should just be honest. In my opinion, it would just be the more natural way to tell them and you can test the waters about their reactions about whether you want to tell them more about what you enjoy or not.

Like Munchies said, they may not understand but they should hopefully not treat you any differently